If You're A Man Who's Ready To:
Unlock Sexual Confidence
Become the lover she trusts, respects, and craves. Break out of performance anxiety and eclaim presence, pleasure, stamina, and power in your intimate life.
Get Clear On Your Mission
Learn how to hold yourself and lead others with clarity. Speak your truth, own your direction, and stay grounded under pressure.
Grow Your Vitality and Resilience
Move from exhaustion and fatigue into grounded, responsive presence. Feel steady again, mentally, emotionally, and physically.
Reserve your spot for a no-BS, no-fluff approach to mastery in sex, leadership, and mindset.
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Turn your pain into power
You’re a man who works hard, persists through life’s challenges, and provides for his family…you’ve checked the boxes, built a life, and achieved success…yet it seems like it’s never enough, your partner is dissatisfied with whatever you do, and you’re tired of being the nice guy who finishes last. You're probably also...
Feeling disconnected from your own fire, going through the motions, lacking passion or purpose.
Noticing your stamina and vitality deteriorating with each passing year, feeling too sluggish and tired to maintain the routines that once fueled you.
Wanting more sex with your partner, but not mechanical sex out of obligation - passionate, connected sex that she also craves and initiates.
Feeling alone or isolated in your inner world, even when you're surrounded by people.
Stuck in your head overthinking, procrastinating, and performing, instead of moving towards your mission with clarity and purpose.
Craving depth, but not sure where to turn for guidance from someone that actually gets you.
...You’re in the right place. Feel something stirring? Don’t ignore it. Click below and pick your path.
The Edge – Framework
Over these eight weeks, you will...
Strip away the habits, patterns, and beliefs that keep you from showing up as the man you know you can be. You will reclaim your presence, master your emotions, understand women on a deeper level, and step into your full power in the bedroom, in your relationships, and in leadership.
Each week builds on the last, taking you through cleansing and clearing, into mastery, emotional command, connection, sexual confidence, and ultimately a vision for the man you are becoming. We work with the statement “small gains, big results” because the daily wins you stack here will create the kind of transformation that lasts a lifetime.
Week 1: Peace Power Presence
It is all about cleansing and clearings so you can move forward. Lay the foundation for everything that follows. Learn how to calm your nervous system, sharpen your focus, and show up as a grounded, intentional man in every interaction. Every step matters.
Week 2: Student to Master to Student to Master to Student
Adopt the mindset that accelerates growth. Train in the balance between humility and authority, knowing when to learn, when to lead, and how to shift between the two without ego or insecurity. Together we build a healthy ego.
Week 3: Emotional Command
Master your emotions before they master you. Gain tools to respond instead of react, speak truth without triggering defensiveness, hear someone else’s truth without being defensive yourself, and stay composed when pressure hits in any area of life.
Week 4: Men Are from Mars Women Are from Venus, But We Are Both from the Same Universe
Bridge the gap between masculine and feminine communication and polarity. Learn to read deeper needs, create emotional safety, and connect in a way that deepens intimacy instead of creating conflict.
Week 5: Sexual Mastery
Move from performance to presence in the bedroom. Explore how to channel sexual energy, last longer, and create connection that leaves your partner or future partner more fulfilled than ever.
Week 6: Leading in All Arenas
Lead with integrity in your relationship, business, and community. Develop the skills to inspire trust, set clear direction, and hold yourself to the standard that others naturally want to follow. In The Edge, we walk the talk.
Week 7: Present Man Future Self
Step into the man you are becoming. Define your vision and legacy, align your daily actions with that vision, and remove everything that no longer serves who you are here to be.
Week 8: The Edge Ritual
Seal your transformation. Through a closing ritual and personal integration plan, lock in the habits, mindset, and standards that will keep you sharp long after the program ends. This is only the beginning.
Busy schedule? No problem.
This training is built for high-performing men with full plates. We meet only once a week for the live session, and the daily practices take just a few minutes to complete — but they compound into big results.
Meet Brenden “Bam” Durell
After retiring from professional baseball in 2014, I went from a locker room of brothers to feeling completely alone. No team. No structure. Just silence. I fell into depression. I realized I didn’t fully trust other men, or myself.
Romantic relationships felt like a minefield. I could give 99%, but that last 1% — the part that required true intimacy — terrified me.
That’s when my real journey began.
Throughout the past 15+ years of trauma-informed men’s work, nervous system healing modalities, tantra, and plant medicine, I discovered that true strength isn’t about powering through. It’s about presence. Integrity. Stillness. Leadership from within.
Since then, I’ve become a father to five kids and trained and mentored hundreds of men — from executives to creatives to veterans — who are tired of holding it all alone. Men ready to stop performing and start feeling. Ready to turn their sexual, emotional, and creative energy into grounded power.
This training isn’t about fixing you. It’s about fathering the fire inside you and becoming the man who can actually hold it.
Master Your Sexual Energy
Learn how to harness your sexual, emotional, and creative energy as fuel for your purpose. No more leaks—just focused, grounded power.
Healthy Masculine Leadership
Build unshakable inner confidence by getting clear on your mission, healing your nervous system, aligning with your truth, and embodying healthy masculine leadership.
Iron Sharpens Iron
Train shoulder-to-shoulder with men who are committed to rising. Get called forward and supported, not coddled or judged.
Be The Man Your Lover Can 100% Trust
Cultivate the presence, clarity, and emotional depth that inspires real trust. Lead with your heart without collapsing. Anchor your relationship in truth, safety, and erotic polarity.
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Something needs to shift
This is your invitation to stop waiting and start walking the path.
